by Antarctica » Fri Feb 07, 2003 12:24 am
You know what, I totally agree with the previous poster. In fact I have been thinking about this after I had written my latest post. I am not going to ask my friend anymore questions about her because firstly she is going to think that *I* am the one stalking her and thats the LAST thing that I want her to think and secondly, I honestly dont think that Visnja would appreciate being found. Not to lecture but put yourself in her shoes. What if you were a charasmatic radio personality who used to talk to one particular person often and shortly after leaving the station you had worked for, that person who you spoke with often went out of his/her way to find you. What if he/she had gotten a hold of your phone number and all of a sudden called you at home 2 months after you had left, or found out that you had started hanging out in a certain area and all of a sudden, he/she is right there in front of your face. Wouldnt you feel terribly creeped out? I can say that if it were me, I would be scared ****. Like I said, I'm not trying to lecture or anything and I understand that you miss her, thats fine. I KNOW you wouldnt intentionally try to stalk her however, others wouldnt see it that way. Unfortunately you'll just have to let it go. And WOW, I had no idea that she is married! My friend never mentioned anything to me in the past about her having a husband but I'm sure he would NOT appreciate anyone trying to find his wife, to put it mildly. All I can say if someone had been stalking me and my husband had found that stalker, he/she wouldn't last for another second!! You'll just have to let go! A